Welcome to The Bodhisattva Dilemma!

As a psychotherapist, I often support people recovering from interpersonal and socially imposed narcissistic misuse and abuse. Many self-identify as highly sensitive, empathic, or co-dependent. Some start therapy already able to describe their attachment style. This project reflects my thoughts on The Bodhisattva Dilemma. For me and many of my clients, acknowledging this intricate endowment, when it arises, is an important part of healing and becoming more resilient in the face of relational and social trauma.  

Drawing upon research, personal, and clinical experience, the content of The Bodhisattva Dilemma is psychoeducational and philosophical. It is not therapy, but it may have a part in supporting post-traumatic growth and greater wellbeing for you and those in your sphere of influence.

If you are concerned about individuals and institutions that keep repeating behaviors that cause harm, I invite you to explore the glossary below and subscribe to The Bodhisattva Dilemma blog. If you resonate with this project, I also invite you to become a member. Your membership gives you access to videos, audio, expanded blog posts, essays and more as they become available. Becoming a member is different from subscribing to the blog.

May you be safe. 

May you be happy. 

May you be healthy. 

May you live with more ease.